When you complain and constantly think about what you can not get or what you do not have, remember these 7 things you have.
1) You have a roof over your head.
2) You have food and water every day.
3) You have clothes to wear.
4) You can forgive the others
5) You have a good heart.
6) You have someone who cares about you.
7) You have your health and you breathe.
So learn to appreciate what you have because thousands of people would like to be in your place. Learn to enjoy every moment of your life with what you have and let the rest come by themselves. Do not complicate things, since they are so simple. Drive the negative thoughts out of your mind and add the positive ones, the ones that make you happy. The ones that will make you value your life without caring about anything. Be grateful for anything!
We all swelled in words. The truth must be told. It is our actions that are different than words. Enough with the messages, the calls and all that behind a screen. If you really want to stand next to someone, you will. You will do everything to give him the courage he needs. When you say you will be by his side in difficult times, we do not mean in the small things and in the simple ones. We mean to be next to him in his black moments. When he will not want to talk to you because he is not well or because he prefers to be closed to himself. When he is trapped by thousands of problems in his life and he now feels lost.
Do not leave him. Do not leave him in his black moments. Give him the courage to endure everything that concerns him. Share your love with him. Stand next to him. Try to do everything that you will see the smile on his lips again. You will see the sparkle in his eyes again. Try to give him the most time of yourself. You are the one who should take the initiative in your hands. You are the one who will think about fighting for your relationship and not leaving him. Do not let all this affect you and fight. Do not put them down if you are really interested.
So do not sit in your chair and wait if he will send you a message or if he will call you. Are you dumb? He will not even think about it. You have to act. Go find him and put the phone calls and messages aside. Show who you really are. Show what courage is to say in love. What does it mean to be really interested in someone. What does it mean to really stand in his black moments. In his sorrows, in his serious problems and in what makes him bend.
Sometimes in my life I feel that I have absolutely no way out of the problems I encounter. Everything I feel, that stress penetrating inside me, kills me little by little. Maybe anxiety about material goods, about the accounts I owe and maybe even more serious situations in my life. Sometimes I have no control over all this and I come up with something out of the ordinary, but sometimes I forget it all. How? It will seem impossible to you, but through your eyes, I forget everything .. I can not understand either but whenever I meet you, there is not a moment that I do not look at you because when I look at you everything leaves my mind, everything problems and all the negative thoughts. You are my exit and entry. You have a character different from the others. A simple character and calm. You have peace in your soul. Every time I see you, I calm down. Even now I see your eyes on the screen.
To go through difficult times in my life and for you to stand by me is the most important thing. But the truth is that sometimes we make our lives difficult and complicated. When we have the people around us that we love, we want nothing more. This is the reality, but sometimes we are ungrateful and selfish, that we want everything perfect in our lives. We want everything our own, not to miss anything. Only we are wrong. The more we want, the less we lose. It all sounds like a seed in our minds that does not say to leave. It is an incurable disease. But come on, we ourselves do not want to be cured, we already like it. I think we are masochists or just drowned in a glass of water that we do not say to swim and break this glass that prevents us from reaching the mainland. That’s why you came, for all this. You opened my eyes, but above all I saw what I did not want to see. The reality.
I saw through your eyes what I did not see in mine. What a tragic irony .. That’s why you who read this, appreciate what you have in your life, before the people you love to see them only in photos ..
6 signs that he has fallen in love with you…Male behaviors that reveal that he has indeed fallen in love with you. 6 obvious signs that you will find ..
He has forgotten his ex! Before he met you, when he divorced he was constantly thinking about his ex for a long time and now that he knows you and you started your relationship with him, he only thinks about you. In his mind is only you and no one else.
Ηe cares about you! What does that mean; He cares about you. He wants to know everything about you. What do you think, what makes you happy. She does not want to see you sad and does everything to see your smile again.
He can’t wait to see you again! This is important. He can’t bear not to see you and to show you constantly that he wants you. He wants to see you and spend time with you.
It has priority over you! He used to watch football with his friends but now he does not mind losing it because of you because he sees you as a priority. He has you at the top of his list now and he don’t want to lose you!
He thinks of you and he misses you! When he tells you that he thinks of you and he miss you , so he just feels something for you. You did not enter his mind by chance and he wants to show you that because he feels it so much.
Love seems! Love is not hidden honey! It seems and you can see him and understand him through his eyes, from the way he smiles at you, from his look and from his movements. Even when he hugs you he does not want to let go of his hands.
Do not neglect these. When you see these signs it means that he has really fallen in love with you! Don’t close your eyes to love!
You may not see it at first because things in the beginning look perfect. Everything will look fine, because very simply the beginning is the acquaintance of a relationship. But when a short period of time together begins , you see and observe some things to him or her. It is a small word, but within it, too, is the “ego” of a man, which is called egotism. Yes, you start and see behind the perfect moments the selfishness of the man you want in your life and it’s not just an ego that just leaves in seconds.
Unfortunately, sometimes you start and fall in love with this person, and most of the time you show it so much that he understands it and begins and reacts with light jokes of selfishness. Perhaps he feels that he has a high wall facing him because of his fear. Egoists usually suffer greatly from expressing their feelings that are so deep and often even ashamed. It is preferable for the selfish person to hide his emotions rather than to manifest them, as he feels lost or even threatened by you. His crisis blurred, he constantly feels that his vulnerable self is in danger and he reacts nervously. It’s not easy for him at all. Also, what he fears most is not to hurt or fail again in a relationship, but if his selfishness betrays him in the end. It will be like losing a piece of yourself forever. That’s why there are huge walls around it, which as much effort as you can, keeps tending over and over again. It is very destructive for both of you.
So, if you are in this position, you should give it as much time as you can, without pushing it and muttering it. Do not complain to him and try to do things for yourself so that you do not constantly think about it. Talk to him and express your wishes. But if you are not in a relationship but you are in the same position and you try and do everything for him but still he continues his selfish path then it is better to choose to leave because you just deserve your happiness and not the misery with someone selfish and especially if you are not together!
Στον τριαδικό Θεό μας πιστευουμε !!! Αξια λιοντάρια του Θεού μας
Easter is approaching, and we are now starting and getting ready .. We are getting ready for the Easter eggs, for the food , the tables, the decoration, the candles and our dressing. But beyond all these preparations, we may forget some very important preparations behind us .. We forget them and we pass them and we know why? It is because we were completely obsessed with material goods and how our stomachs will be filled at the Resurrection … It is perfect to organize and have everything on our table, but it would be even more perfect if we found and put forgiveness on our table. Forgiveness is what will calm our soul and bring joy to our table, because without it, hatred and envy knock on our door and we welcome them and they sit at our table instead of forgiveness and love .. We prefer to enslave ourselves and put irons in our hearts and prefer black instead of white.
The Holy Light and the Resurrection are coming and instead of loving and forgiving our fellow man even more, we ridicule him as they ridicule the Jesus Christ .. We continue to make the same mistakes and the same sins and therefore we believe that everything is perfect and right . Jesus sacrificed for us out of love and out of love He did all this. Why are we so hard to make even a small sacrifice within ourselves? Maybe because we are so far from Him that we do not approach Him to meet all these joyful feelings. We forget that feelings and we forget Him and we find it difficult to put a little faith inside us..
It is better now that Easter is approaching, we must to resurrect ourselves, to dress with love and forgiveness and to repent for all the nails we put on ourselves and those around us … At least if we do not want to do it for ourselves let us do it for the One who gave us everything, the Jesus Christ..