Be interested in the one who is claiming you

Love comes where you least expect it. With a look or a smile. It comes where it can not be restrained. He comes and shoots your heart.

But sometimes you feel so emotionally and completely without giving and realizing reality. You think that the one you met in a few days is the right one for you. He is the special man we say. The ideal for you, the one who has it all. Everything you wanted and want, until in the end something goes wrong.

At first everything looks perfect and you wonder “is it a dream or a reality?” , and you just think it’s your dream. Your love. You get so excited that you forget the logic. You forget what you should and should not do and you may be disappointed. You forget that you should not get excited so easily and I should not consider someone so high.

Today no one thinks of anyone. Almost everyone is in the interest. Few men will really care about you, you just have to be careful. Take care of yourself because there is so much ingratitude and indifference. You do not know what will happen to you. Do not be blinded by the slightest thing out there. Do not get excited about the one who at first looks so sweet and then as sour as a lemon because it will come at the moment when someone else will come into your life and treat you perfectly and you will just be elsewhere in your mind. You will think of the one who hurt you, the one you thought had it all. You thought he was the right person for you, but he was wrong. It was your enthusiasm that believed this and not you.

You will be able to see reality with the eyes of your heart, with the eyes there not of enthusiasm and mind but with those of consciousness and feeling.

There will come a time when someone will come to claim you completely and will think of nothing but this. Isn’t that what we all women want anyway? Let someone come and do everything for us. To claim us for what we are and not for what we are not. To dare to make sacrifices for us and to show all the masculine courage that few have. To be really interested in you. The one who wants to show you all he is. That you will always want to do and that you will find time for yourself no matter what exactly he does in his life and above all that he will respect and endure with you. Where he will know how to claim a woman in his life and who will not let any negative thoughts trade him for it.

So can I tell you something? Forget the one who dissolved you, who disappointed you with his big words, with his classy romantic acts and immediately the great enthusiasm he had with you. Forget this opposite love. Live in the present. Live with the one who claims you day by day. Think of him and not the one who did not even find the courage to speak to you honestly. I know, you might say I can not forget him so easily. But everything has its time, it is enough to try and really want to forget. You just have no choice but to do your best and move on because life wants happiness and not misery and I am sure you will succeed.

Author(s): info-scanner

You may not see it at first because things in the beginning look perfect. Everything will look fine, because very simply the beginning is the acquaintance of a relationship. But when a short period of time together begins , you see and observe some things to him or her. It is a small word, but within it, too, is the “ego” of a man, which is called egotism. Yes, you start and see behind the perfect moments the selfishness of the man you want in your life and it’s not just an ego that just leaves in seconds.

Unfortunately, sometimes you start and fall in love with this person, and most of the time you show it so much that he understands it and begins and reacts with light jokes of selfishness. Perhaps he feels that he has a high wall facing him because of his fear. Egoists usually suffer greatly from expressing their feelings that are so deep and often even ashamed. It is preferable for the selfish person to hide his emotions rather than to manifest them, as he feels lost or even threatened by you. His crisis blurred, he constantly feels that his vulnerable self is in danger and he reacts nervously. It’s not easy for him at all. Also, what he fears most is not to hurt or fail again in a relationship, but if his selfishness betrays him in the end. It will be like losing a piece of yourself forever. That’s why there are huge walls around it, which as much effort as you can, keeps tending over and over again. It is very destructive for both of you.

So, if you are in this position, you should give it as much time as you can, without pushing it and muttering it. Do not complain to him and try to do things for yourself so that you do not constantly think about it. Talk to him and express your wishes. But if you are not in a relationship but you are in the same position and you try and do everything for him but still he continues his selfish path then it is better to choose to leave because you just deserve your happiness and not the misery with someone selfish and especially if you are not together!

Author(s): info-scanner

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