You may not see it at first because things in the beginning look perfect. Everything will look fine, because very simply the beginning is the acquaintance of a relationship. But when a short period of time together begins , you see and observe some things to him or her. It is a small word, but within it, too, is the “ego” of a man, which is called egotism. Yes, you start and see behind the perfect moments the selfishness of the man you want in your life and it’s not just an ego that just leaves in seconds.
Unfortunately, sometimes you start and fall in love with this person, and most of the time you show it so much that he understands it and begins and reacts with light jokes of selfishness. Perhaps he feels that he has a high wall facing him because of his fear. Egoists usually suffer greatly from expressing their feelings that are so deep and often even ashamed. It is preferable for the selfish person to hide his emotions rather than to manifest them, as he feels lost or even threatened by you. His crisis blurred, he constantly feels that his vulnerable self is in danger and he reacts nervously. It’s not easy for him at all. Also, what he fears most is not to hurt or fail again in a relationship, but if his selfishness betrays him in the end. It will be like losing a piece of yourself forever. That’s why there are huge walls around it, which as much effort as you can, keeps tending over and over again. It is very destructive for both of you.
So, if you are in this position, you should give it as much time as you can, without pushing it and muttering it. Do not complain to him and try to do things for yourself so that you do not constantly think about it. Talk to him and express your wishes. But if you are not in a relationship but you are in the same position and you try and do everything for him but still he continues his selfish path then it is better to choose to leave because you just deserve your happiness and not the misery with someone selfish and especially if you are not together!
Στον τριαδικό Θεό μας πιστευουμε !!! Αξια λιοντάρια του Θεού μας
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